This is the story of two journeys
intertwined in the affirmation and blessings of God. One journey is Hunter’s and the other is
mine. His journey is toward physical hearing
and mine of spiritual hearing - hearing the message I was to deliver Hunter’s family
upon my return from the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament Motherhouse in
Bensalem, PA.
Through a series of circumstances,
Mrs. Helen Polk, and I planned a trip to the Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament
Motherhouse for St. Katharine Drexel’s Feastday, March 3. As we traveled, I carried with me hundreds of
prayer intentions to lay at St. Katharine’s crypt. Each intention is considered just as special,
significant, and worthy as another, yet I knew the most specific intention I
carried was for Hunter. This is because the
intention for Hunter is directly linked to St. Katharine, as while she is not
considered the patron saint of hearing, both miracles approved by the Vatican
for her canonization were miracles of hearing.
Ms. Polk and I had already gone to
mass earlier that morning in the Motherhouse’s infirmary chapel, St. Michaels,
yet I felt compelled to go again at noon in the larger chapel, St. Elizabeth’s.
At this mass, rather than the usual
feastday celebration (which had to be postponed until the following weekend),
the Honor Guard, those who keep watch over St. Katharine’s crypt, are being
honored.
St. Elizabeth’s is part of the
shrine area and I hoped that after the mass we would visit the crypt for the
first time on our trip. My purse was packed
with envelopes of intentions, including Hunter’s. Hunter’s grandmother, Suzanne, had also given
me his photo and four cards printed with the same photo, as well as information
about his blog, and the letters in “thank you” expressed through signing hands. Further, when I saw the photo and counted the
cards, I immediately knew my plan: the photo would be placed on St. Katharine’s
tomb and the four cards were for particular Sisters of the Blessed Sacrament I’d
chosen.
When we walked into St. Elizabeth’s
chapel, it was completely full. The
chapel was opened in 1892, with most of the seating being “stalls” – individual
spaces, each for a Sister of the Blessed Sacrament at a time when the religious
order was flourishing and growing. As we
cross the threshold, we immediately meet up with Sr. Agnes McDevitt and she
says, “I have no idea where you are going to find a seat.” I quickly scan the room and spot the only two
unoccupied stalls next to one another.
We make our way there to sit and I get out my St. Katharine rosary,
share it with Ms. Polk, and then get out another for myself.
As I get situated with my bulging
purse and such, I look up and sitting next to Ms. Polk, I see a man I am sure I
recognize. Being admittedly starstruck,
I have to keep reminding myself during mass to stop being distracted by his
presence, as I know I will approach him afterwards. I am also in awe of the fact that over the
past 12 years, the only connection I have to this man is to see his photo a
handful of times – the same photo, which is a profile view. I shake his hand at the sign of peace and I
cannot believe whose eyes I am looking into.
After mass, it seems like an eternity before I can say, “Excuse me –
Robert?” he nods yes, a bit quizzically, and Ms. Polk is staring at me,
wondering who in the world I could know here. I turn to her and say, “This is Robert Gutherman. The person who St. Katharine’s first
confirmed miracle of hearing was performed on.”
There I was, with a profoundly deaf child’s intention in my heart and in
my purse, standing face-to-face with the man who received St. Katharine’s first
miracle of hearing.
As we talk, I explain the very
specific intention for Hunter and ask him if he will pray for this beautiful
child. Of course, he agrees, and while we converse further, I battle with the
thought of giving him one of the four cards.
That would mean I’d have to choose which Sister would not receive a
card. Could I maybe copy one? I surely could just get another and send it
when I return home. But in my humanness,
I simply want another card because my plan is going to be interrupted. I am incredibly grateful to give one to
Robert, but a little disappointed I will leave with one Sister not having what
I know I was meant to bring her. When I
open my wallet to give him one, I half think that maybe I’ll see five… but I
don’t.
Robert was sure to ask if Hunter has
a relic of St. Katharine and I tell him that he does. I find it meaningful that Robert also
mentions no one really ever recognizes him, something he’s and other “miracle”
recipients have discussed is fairly humorous.
They walk through malls, attend events, go to the movies, etc. and people
are none-the-wiser. It takes me aback
when he says he wouldn’t normally be at the Motherhouse for this particular
celebration – he’s only there because during the big feastday celebration he
will be on retreat.
After mass, a meal had been
organized and we eat in the wide hallways and the gathering areas outside of
the gift shop. I begin talking to a
Sister of the Blessed Sacrament and share the Hunter/Robert story. She marvels and says that’s my experience to
take home. I expressed that we still
have about 24 hours at the Motherhouse before leaving, so there’s time for
more! We laugh and agree, “Who knows?”
Later when we visit crypt, I lay
Hunter’s photo on the end of it where St. Katharine’s head lies. It is among a display of a relic and a prayer
cloth. The honor guards keeping watch
over the crypt are Sr. Anne Doyle, SBS and a husband and wife team. Among the 60 or so honor guardsmen who were
at the St. Elizabeth’s mass, this couple are two of the very few we personally
met at the gathering afterwards.
After kneeling in prayer for some
time, I walk over to Sr. Anne Doyle and ask her to pray for Hunter. She asks me write his name in her prayer
book, along with why she is to pray for him.
I then walk back and get his photo to show her. She is overcome by how beautiful he is. I also share the photo with couple and ask
them to pray for Hunter. The husband
asks if I can stay at the crypt for a while – he has something he needs to get
and send to Hunter. He returns with
Padre Pio blessed oil.
That afternoon, Ms. Polk and I recount
the story about Robert, the couple, the oil, and more. Between us, we’ve been to the Motherhouse 15
times, with beautiful, spiritual and holy experiences happening, yet neither
can remember something like this ever happening. Later that evening, I give Hunter’s second
card to Sr. Michelle Callanan and explain why prayers are needed.
The following morning, we are
enjoying breakfast with Sr. Agnes McDevitt and the opportunity to give her the
third card I have presents itself. She
takes the card and says, “Now where do you get these made? There must be a source for hearing impaired
people because I have a card that looks just like this. We got a few from a person in a Methodist
prayer group but I’m not sure where mine is.”
We agree how nice it is that there
are cards like this for people with hearing afflictions and continue our
conversation. Later that afternoon, as
we are saying our goodbyes, we are with Sr. Ruth Catherine Spain and I give her
the fourth and final card I have. I make
a mental note to ensure that when I return home to get another card from
Suzanne to send to Sr. Mary O’Riordan.
She is the fourth Sister to whom I’d intended to give a card. Further, since beginning to give out the
cards, I had not even run into her, so even if I’d had a fifth one, I wouldn’t have
had the chance.
We return home at nearly 10 p.m.
Sunday evening. I email Sr. Agnes to let
her know we made it safely. I know that
Monday will be a tiring and hectic day back at school, but I am energized
thinking about meeting with Suzanne to share the story. I email her Monday morning and ask about when
she has time to meet. She replies that
she can come after lunch. Before Suzanne
arrives, I receive a reply from Sr. Agnes.
Among other things she emails about is this, “I also found the card with Hunter's picture on
it. Don't ask how it got all the way up here before you. I think it
is a sign.” It takes me a moment to
process… the card she found is the one she said looked just like the one I gave
her… because IT WAS the one I gave her!
I realize there is no source for “stock” cards like this – Hunter’s
cards were made uniquely for him.
The
message I know I am to deliver is clear and one that is overwhelming. How do I tell a grandmother that I know her
grandson will hear well? Hear with his
ears? Hear with his heart? Hear through the actions of others?
How do
I, with conviction, reassure her he will be okay? All I have to lean on is my
story and the faith that whatever I say will be the right thing. Sometimes connections can be made through
stretching and yearning to see them, which is just fine. Other times they cannot be denied or
explained. They are specific – just like
I always considered Hunter’s intention.
And
there are more connections. Like the
fact that Elise was one of three students at St. Edward, chosen from 70-80
children when she was in 3rd grade, to receive the school’s highest
honor, the St. Katharine Drexel Award.
And the Padre Pio blessed oil… a perfect fit for a tiny, beautiful bag
Suzanne received as a Christmas gift – a bag that she’d been waiting to use for
something special in regards to Hunter. The
list could go on.
Whatever you take from this story, it is hoped to have strengthened your faith and also affirmed that St. Katharine is interceding for Hunter. I believe that God is drawing people closer to Him and to one another through Hunter. Let us continue to “storm heaven” for his health, for the success of his coming surgery, and in thanksgiving for this precious child who has already profoundly touched the lives of so many.
This is amazing Elise!!!
ReplyDeleteI have kept this card with me since it was given to me on March 3rd (St Katharine's feast day). I hope and pray that some day soon that Hunter will be able to hear the love and joy of the results of prayers answered. I will be watching for the updates.
DeleteBest regards,
Bob Gutherman